the reception

okay, i think i have to write this now as i dont want to blog about this next year! hih

the reception
dewan seri seroja, putrajaya
13/12/2009

after nikah, kitaorg heret abang nazim to photoshoot nearby area. pastu kelam kabut balik mekap2 tukar baju untuk reception.

kepak kepung kepak kepung. masa ni macam. wah selama ni dengar kompang orang lain kawen kan. so this time i was like. is this kompang for me? aku sedang kawen ke? ishhh sengal kuasa infiniti.

wah sengihhh

masa berarak, i jalan sgt slow slow control dan few friends said i senyum senget2 maybe sebab nervous sangat. haha! sengal. dan orang kata wah macam mana ederq leh jalan sopan2 ni. hihi my mom dah cakap banyak kali jangan jalan laju. coz i always that type one. nak cepattttt je. hihihi.

pergh masa ni ramai orang lah. terkejut i. rasa macam artis! hihi

and ariff kannnnn... ada ke jalan tunduk2? i told him, b tengok depan lah. and smileeeee. ishhh pemalu betol tau. hihi

my flower girls comel. dan sangat teratur. maybe sebab dorang dah besar. tak payah nak ajar banyak kali. hihi me likee!

then, selawat kat entrance, i have chose hijjaz punya selawat tapi tiba2 saudara mara buat selawat live. oh okay tak apa lah. okay jugak. sebab sume menda dah live. baru lah feel live live.

the entrance

then berarak ke pelamin dengan gamelan. wah this i likeeeee! i likeeee so much!

heart the gamelan sound

this chair is not so comfy for ariff. he kept bending his back. hih

then doa by ayahsu. pergh. masa ni sentap. ayat2 dlm doa tu mmg sentap mmg besh. hampir titis air mata. thank you ayahsu.

aminn

then, renjis2. my brothers naughty. abes di campak2 bunga rampai. haha! i knew it!

direnjis2 ummy n abah

did i tell you of the henna story? done by ayin n dayu from dayu design. (free! sponsored by ayin. hihi) and i worn it too long that it turns very black! lucky i had time to sental! fewh.

then, makan beradap. haha! tak sempat makan. masa ni lapa gila sebenarnya. haha

makan dgn adap

merry happy clappy!

then the montage shown were - childhood montage, engagement and nikah montage. yeah the projector was not in good condition but people were still watching and laughed on our nikah montage. sebab kelakar masa nak tunggu sah ke tak. me and ariff punya mata macam kiri kanan kiri kanan. haha! ish tengok sendirilah tak reti nak describe. hihi

amanat

then, abah berucap. then tiba2 potong kek. ok i tak sempat makan dah kena potong kek ke? haha!

tiba2 kannn tengok2 pisau ptg kek tidak ada. gimikkk la kononnnn. konon2 kena jawab soalan dulu baru dapat potong kek. okay fine siapa punya idea ni. mesti abg bainuri lah. cehhh.

arep dah terketar2 menjawab. esp bila part ucapan. and i forgot to prepare myself. main cakap je. isshhhhhhhh

ariff nervous

then after that macam biasalah, beramas mesra dan berambil gambar.

i'm so happy that many friends came to celebrate us. yang i appreciate adalah kawan2 stf yang sudi jugak datang even da lama tak jumpa. huhu tq ladies. tq facebook! hahah!

stfians

tidak dilupakan my lovely glowing gedixbabes! muah muahhh

dan jugak kak mas yang dah berzaman lah tak jumpa. zaman2 sekolah agama kat rumah kedai. haha! terharuuu

with kak mas

ada jugak yang tak dapat dtg tp takpela nak buat macam mana kan. kan banyak kenduri time tu. cuti sekolah standard ah. huhu. sorry tak dapat nak upload semua gambar the rest in this post.

and what i admire the most is my family support! everyone plays their part. the event will not be a success without their effort. thank you sangat2 stay sampai pagi the night before for rehearsal. and berpenat lelah untuk event kak long ok.

walaupun muka kak long macam nak tahan kentot, kak long tetap upload sebab u all semua comel in this pix!

yang kelakar urusetia logistik - pembetul red carpet. haha! nampak macam senang tapiiii itulah paling penat sebab asikkk tersenget2. hhiihi sian korang.

as for my parents, this is their first time having kenduri. kesian sangat2 ummy. penat gila dia. masa event tu mata separuh terbukak.penat sangat2.

then after that, abg nazim n abg wira n yusuf (all from dinawedding group) diheret untuk photoshoot outdoor.

oh man, finally it is done! lega sangat2. happy sangat2. i didnt sleep enough for the past few days. and i thought i will not have the energy for the day. but man, i was wrong. tuhan pinjamkan tenaga dari mana tak tahu lah. i didnt feel tired at all. i cant stop smiling (despite of gigi jarang yang sentiasa diejek cousins. ceh!)

tapi bila balik rumah after outdoor photoshoot, dah mandi2 semua dan nak makan.

perrgh lapar gila badan terketar2. dan perut masuk angin. tapi pegi makan nasik jugak. then zasss i cant walk staright. gastrik sudah datang. perut sudah masuk hangin.

and the best part is ada hubby tolong sapukan ubat. awww bestnyaaaaa. terus kentut2 keluar angin dan legaaaa. hihihi.

so few things as penutup:

1. thank you to all for coming to our wedding!
   
2. thank you for the gifts! remember my previous post on wish list? i got 90% of what i listed! wow! rezeki. thank you all! muah muahhh. dan ada jugakk dapat baju baby ok. aiman bagi. ish ishhh sabar yaa. haha. and kelakar si debab tu bagi black lingerie. ceh iya2 cakap jgn bukak depan orang la apalah. sekali kann. the box terjatuh kat meja hadiah. dan semua orang kat situ dah nampak. hahah! eh tapi me n ariff sukaaa hadiah itu. hihih. as for cadar and comforter set, i dont have to but for 2 years kot. haha! microwave pun dapat 2, visions etc etc wah kena rajin masakkk.
   
3. minta maaf terkurang terlebih on the event :)
4. thank you to family and friends yang tolong my event. my puan pengapit, iza - for your time and mira n olynn for jaga at guess book table!

13/12/2009 - the best day in my life. alhamdulillah :)

puan ieda dan suami

love

the solemnization

hih reading back below entry made me feel keji. i was very mad (still) and emotional. haha! let it be. memang geram punn.

andddd now it's time for a lovey dovey post y'all. and sorry yah, this blog will be full with wedding stuffs for next few entries. dont yawn just yet okayyy. hihi

the solemnization
location: masjid putra, putrajaya
date: 13 december 2009

me done and ready for nikah. seeeee the eyes! the obvious eye bags!

ariff was freaking nervous whenever we talked about the wedding previously. like other groom he worries most on the akad. takut kena tanya macam2. nak2 pulak kita orang dapat imam besar Masjid Putra yang memang famous dengan suka berlama2 masa nak nikah. hihi

as for me, i was nervous too! who's not? GULPPP

ariff was a bit late for nikah. so i used the time, pegi kat parents minta maaf and restu. i went to abah first and hugged him and asked for forgiveness dan asked him to doakan us.

mannnn! abah was touched and i knew he wanted to cry also! i'm the only daughter and he has been so protective over me throughout the years. tapi i sayang makeup, i hold the tears. tried hard okay.

then i went to ummy and did the same too. and i cant hold it anymore. the tears dropped and my ummy cakap. ishh kenapa menangis ni dah2 rosak makeup. and i tried to laugh sambil hold the tears. damnnn

iza tolong wipekan tears. nasib baik tak leleh2. hihi. mmhh the parents. the greatest treasure in my world. they have done so much that no words can tell. haruslah sedih when it comes to this part. damn, my throat is still choking while typing this! huhhh

okay here we go. it's time! luckily imam tak banyak soal. dia tanya rukun nikah je. and borak2 lain. dan dia memang banyak kisah nak diceritakan. kelakar. haha

ya tok imam sila cepat jangan berlengah lagi

abah yang nikahkan. i can sense abah was nervous too. initially he wanted to pass the job to imam tapi imam insist abah sendiri nikahkan. kan lagi afdal.

dup dup duppp

the moment came and my heart went hysteric inside. god knows how ariff's was! dua kali lafaz as ariff lambat response. and bila sah sah tu i was like OMG OMG. is this for real? and i felt like jumping. rasa nak pegi lompat kat ariff and hugged him there and then. and people say my muka galak showed in the video. haha! sengal lah.

alhamdulillah

i didnt cry - menangis gembira ke apa. my weakness that day was the parents. after nikah pon salam2 parents still rasa macam. entahlah i dont know how to describe but i know my parents sort of letting me go for ariff and felt losing me but i hate that assumption okay. i'm still their daughter. ariff is not taking me. ariff is sharing me. hihi.

oh yes, i remember this. i also felt sebak when after nikah, ariff came to me and serahkan duit mas kahwin. and i was sebak and could not say any other words but TERIMA KASIH. ingatkan nak drama sikit nak cakap, terima kasih suamiku tercinta. adinda harap kekanda akan cintai ku sepenuh ha... okay okay shadap you jgn nak reka cerita pulakk!

thank you

okay lah, itu aje kot. gambar campur2 dr camera orang2. yg last sekali je official photographer pix. me likeeeee!

and the montage as well. click here!
tak sempat nak download lah. u all tengok situ ok. done by abg wira from dinawedding

notes:

1. i heart my nikah makeup the most!
2. if you read my blog previously, i mentioned that i hate the material and the color for my nikah dress. but i was wrong. i heart it soooo much. even it is not white, it still look pure, fresh and niceee. well at least for me lah. hihi
3. the song in the video is our love song. and i'm sooo loving it in our nikah video!

to ariff:

alhamdullilah we are husband and wife now. i cant express my feeling how happy and thankful i am for having you. hunny doa b n hny love each other sampai bila2. and we are blessed with goodness. i love you so much. MUAACCHSSS

lovebirds

i love you forever

13/12/2009 - the baddddd stuffssss

bear with me! i'm gonna whine a lot in this post. on your markkkk get setttt GOOOO!

530am

woke up. huh, did i actually sleep or not? mandi, solat, baca yassin untuk tenangkan hati. got few sips of Milo. and waited for makeup artist to come.

7am++

makeup artist and videographer arrived. my photographer was late. so he waited for me at Masjid Putra. i dont blame him. my nikah time kept changing.

8am++

Move to Masjid Putra, Putrajaya. i just find out that SHE has forgotten my nikah bouquet. she just did sanding bouquet and had passed that to my sedara and it is red roses for god sake. and my nikah dress is lilac. She done wrong for my hantaran i can sabar lagi. but this time, i was in the car, heading to masjid for nikah and knowing i have no flower bouquet. what is bride without her flowers??

^%V%%^!!#@$*&&)((*##@#^E!!!!!

i felt like crying. god knows how long have i spent time googling hand bouquet for my BIG DAY. and this is what i get. great!

tried to be cool, and what to do, i had to use red roses (suppose to be used for reception) for nikah. urghh!

smiling for becoming a wifey, amarah dalam hati for the bouquet

and my sirih junjung, also she passed to my cousin the night before. and guess what. it's freaking ugly. i hate it.

my family semua malu sebab hantaran ariff jauh lebih cantik from mine. esp sirih junjung. damn. masa ni memang frust. luckily i have iza, olynn n mira yg calm me down. huh. dalam masjid ni sume berlaku ok.

ariff punya haruslah cantik2 coz dia guna kak shaja. the one who made our engagement dais and my sirih junjung masa tunang. and she is an adorable lady and highly recommended!

then SAH SAH! 2x lafaz. okay dah selamat. but that in details in the next post. kan ni post amarah ni. hihi

after nikah, makan2. then my family rushed back to home, nak prepare for reception pulak. didnt get the chance to photoshoot with family dekat masjid. HUHHHHHHHHH

i should have assigned someone to take care of this. so that they all tak kelam kabut balik. tapi what to do. menda da lepas.

RECEPTION

then after photoshoot around, siap2 untuk sanding pulakkk.

i entered the hall and saw my pelamin and wondered:

1. where the hell is my black n red damask background? why is it all red?
2. and where are the flower balls? they should be hanging on the panels!
3. and where are my flowers along the stage?
4. andddd why on earth the flowers on the 3tier racks look tiny and almost nothing?

KUCIWAAAA. the only thing that i like is the kerusi.

man, i tell you, dalam hati adalah bersumpah seranah segala dah. but senyum tetap senyummmmm. fine fine. amarahhhh

then, masa makan beradap, i didnt get to listen to my abah bagi speech. because toooo many friends yg dtg nak amek gmbr kt meja beradap. i dont mind for not eating. tapi adalah rasa rude bila abah cakap tapi i tgh say cheese on camera. should have assigned someone to control people coming towards meja beradap.

:( sorry abah. nanti kak long dengar kat video.

thennn, projector dewan adalah tahi. semua montage, video nikah adalah tidak clear. pecah2. mmh. penat abag wira rush2 balik buat montage nikah tu. mmm. tapi kan. the nikah vid is SUPERBBB! BESH GILAA.

and our love song, for 6 yrs, jadi wedding song. AWWW sukaaaa..... eh eh lupa ni post amarah. tak leh cerita itu.

okaylah penat dah!

kesimpulan:

1. kalau dah hesitate nak hire somebody, esp bila dah dengar bad testi, even kau dah bayar deposit ponnn xpyhla teruskan. so not worth. this is your big day! kalau cacat cela menda2 kecik takpe. for me, hantaran, pelamin, bunga are darn important in your wedding.
   
2. nikah and sanding 1 hari adalahhhhhhhhhhh rush dan kelam kabut!
3. i know an event wont be a perfect one. but was so frustrated that the bad stuffs came from ONE person. too bad. i'm not that lucky i guess.

anyway, semua dah selamat. i'm writing all this bukan nak burukkan sesiapa. just like what i mentioned to her, don't do this to other bride. please don't.

the day before

12/12/2009

masa ni freak out rumah berkecah lagi. doorgift tak siap pack lagi. bilik perantin baru 85% siap. pergh masa ni memang penat gila.

dah setel2 sume perkara, petang tu pegi ambil brg2 hantaran. haram. kecewa.

i requested bekas lain, lain dia bagi. fine! pagi esok dah nak nikah. malas nak layan. boleh lagi bermuka2 baik. pulak tu lupa nak ambil sirih junjung. dan bekas cake tak bunga langsung?

malam tu kelam kabut pegi dewan. untuk rehearsal. my event manager (eceh padahal sedara je) ada wedding kat merak kayangan so sampai lambat.

that time mmg i yg kelam kabut buat semua menda. seb bek ada sdara2 len tlg. pergh time ni mmg penatttt.. dah nak demam.

pastu i left the dewan at almost 11. still org pelamin tak sampai2 lagi. and guess what. dia sampai kul 12.30 and finish her thing at 2++. tak kuasalah aku nak tunggu. dan aku pon neves nak tengok hasil sebab takut dia tak bagi yg dia promise. hantaran pon dah salah kan. so haruslah neves bab pelamin.

malam tak leh tido. i think i slept less than 2hrs. huhhhh

thenbaru teringat flower bouquet dia belom bagi. 2am ++ i called her and she said dah bagi my sedara. ok fine. tidurrr tidurrrr. tapi xboleh tidur.

up next - wedding day!

the wedding team

okay i'll type this fast as ummy is bising2 already in the kitchen. hih.

alhamdulillah all went well. i suppose the event went as planned except for few things yg mmg haram rasa nak marah segala. huhuh. xpe2. lek2. ok i'm revealing my wedding team. mana la tau pasni u all nak hire ke. hihi

13/12/2009

official photographer
NAZIM ZAFRI - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

official videographer
Abg Wira from dinawedding- HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

makeup artist
kak emma, emma pesona - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

nikah dress:
cik lah (jamilah design) - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

wedding dress: the most FAQ from u bunnies. hih
siti aishah - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

wedding cake and hantaran cakes
kak ellie from de'heart - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

henna
ayin n dayu from dayu design

pelamin
nurul arbee creation
(no comment)

hantaran
nurul arbee creation
(no comment)

tu je kot for now. anyway, for all bride to bes! plan well for your big day. and pilih org yg kita betol2 trust. kalau awal2 dah hesitate, jangan. :)

and i have few things for rent. i'll let u know soon ok. some of them are:

veils: yang i guna time engagement, nikah and sanding
my wedding dress
flower girls basket
crown
nt update lg. :)


ANDDD this event will not be a success without my lovely family's support. semua orang adalah bersatu padu! dan have fun walau penattttt. sayang u all. muahhh.

the childhood montage

me likeeee this!!!

done by ikram zam zam. thank you dude!

but projector kat dewan adalah tahi!

happily married

alhamdulillah. husband and wife we are now.

i have tonnes of story to blog about.

good stuffs, bad ones. all of them!

soon okay?

anyway, tq to all who came to our wedding! hugsss

s a b a r

PA tok imam sesuka hati tukar my nikah time to 930. cis kalau bukan 1 day event tak pe lah.
sabar jelah. impian nak ambil gambar lepas nikah mungkin dah limited. damn.

dan sekarang tengah batuk pulak.

doakan aku sihat!

update, 10/12 - pakcik i dapat tukar semula time nikah to 830am. bagossss! i je ckp bagos arep menggelupurrr. hahaha

happy bday ummy!

last day at work as single :)

today is my lat day at work, as a single. hih

oh please i cant focus!

6 days to go

all the to do list yg i listed last week dah buat. alhamdulillah.

tp mata da bengkakk. xckp tido.

and gula2 pun my mom dah beli. x jd pulak beli lolipop. tak apalah tak kisahlah mana2.

pasal doorgift ni kan. kalau ikutkan hati i, mmg la nak bg menda seketul je yg org boleh guna/simpan. tapi biasalah emak2. mesti nak tarok byk2 brg. okaylah tak kisah lah ummy. hihi

dan rumah adalah macam tongkang pecah. banyakkkk gila barangggggg.

6 days to go and here my to do list.

monday

• nak pegi tgk tiara and cekak. tak berkenan pulak yg make up artist i ada. hrp ada yg ok.
• keluarkan dan finalize semua gambar2 nak ltk kt childhood playback! tlgla takut tak sempatttttt

tuesday

• cari barang2 untuk buat bunga manggar
• anta gambar2 childhood kt mira soh pas kt ikram
  

Wednesday

• Pick up the wedding dresses at laundry
• go to ikea - beli few items for room deco
• ni dah stat amek half day. so macam ada masa nk search apa2 yg x ckp lg.
  

Thursday

• kemas rumah
• start deco deco deco bilik perantin

friday

• beli kasut untuk flower girls
  
• Spa
• henna at ayin's place
  

saturday

• buy flowers for room deco deco deco
• ambil brg2 hantaran from kak nurul (petang)
  
• nite - rehearsal
• sleep early. possible or notttt

Sunday

• ZASSSSSSSS

kena bykkkk minum air dan tidur awal dan rehat rehat. bila masanya nak rehat. muahahah

okay sekian.

HELPPPP

siapa tahu tempat jual gula2 secara borong. taknak jauh2. KL or PJ or Serdang area ajelah okay. help me okay.

i nak yg mcm ini.

thank you sayang sayang.

to do! oh capek

to do list:

2/12

1. jumpa orang gamelan/kompang
2. final fitting baju nikah

3/12

1. jumpa encik bakal suami bukan dating tapi last minute shopping on - cufflink belum beli, bra, and ahem ahem lingerie. and we have lotttt to discuss dear.
   

4/12

1. jumpa moks

5/12

1. ambil doorgift bag
2. jumpa orang dewan untuk finalize techincal support dia
3. ambil wedding dress dan anta dry clean
4. wedding dinner at shah alam (malas tapi)

6/12

1. gosh this thing. malas nak pergi tapi entah. tapi rugi pula. pagi smpi ptg tu. haih
2. anta brg2 hantaran b to kak nurul

then i have house to kemas, bilik to deco. doorgift tu adoi i mls nk buatlah. suruhlah sedara mara buat je.

lucky i have mok iza to help with the cakes. apa lagi apa lagi.

i think i'll work my ass at gym jugaklah next week. baru fresh kot.

then i will be needing that 5.5 hrs spa!

lelaki idaman

dia yang saya akan kahwini minggu depan ini.
bukanlah lelaki idaman yang saya mimpikan masa zaman gatal2 mencari kekasih.

dulu saya impi lelaki yang macam di bawah ini:

1. dark (macam ala2 tanned. tak suka lelaki putih jambulah. tapi nasib baikkk ariff tak jambu. durian ada. hahaha)
   
2. tall (seb baik B tinggi hingga saya hanya nampak bulu hidung beliau bila dongak ke muka dia tanpa heels)
   
3. handsome (dia tak kacak macam Hugh Dancy, tapi kacak di mata hati saya sampai bila2 kecuali bila muka dia marah saya saya tak sukaaa. :p)
   
4. lebih tua sedikit dari saya (alamak ini memang tak dapat!)
   
5. pandai main guitar (tak pandai!)
   
6. pandai buat saya ketawa (haha memang saya suka ketawaKAN dia. :p)
   
7. friendly (ha ini memang lambat warm up. tapi okayla kot. kang dua2 byk cakap sapa nak dengar?)
   
8. layan rock songs only (dia layan hitz. bwelkkk)
   
9. rambut jangan pendek sangat (saya suka time dia rambut panjang. sekarang terpaksa skema)
   
10. pandai martial art (sebab kan saya budak silat duluuu. hih. oh ariff xpernah join martial art)
    

alah malas pulak nak list panjang2. banyak lagi. hihi

kesimpulannya, ariff ariza tu bukanlah ada semua ciri2 lelaki idaman yang saya mahu dulu.

saya ada juga berkawan2 dengan orang2 yang hampir mempunyai ciri di atas. tapi tak ada satu pun yang lekat lama2.

ada yang macam poyo rasa terbagus di dunia. ada yang baik sangat sampai baru kawan dengan saya dah pandai nak komen saya suka gelak macam pontianak dan suruh saya bersyukur dengan apa yang ada dan ada pula yang macam kedekut nak spend duit bila makan sama2. dan ada pula yang tiba2 okay fine ada girlfriend lain pada masa ingin berbaik2 dengan saya. okay fine but damn you.

HOHH. akhirnya saya faham. lelaki idaman bukan boleh nak cirikan macam tu je. kalau dah physically attracted, chemically belum tentu lagi. biologically pula eh itu lain.

kadang2 kita tunggu lelaki yang ada semua ciri2 yang kita mahu baru lah nak bercinta kasih sayang mengenali lebih dekat segala. tanpa beri peluang. kadang2 kita tak tahu. lelaki yang tiada langsung ciri2 idaman itulah yang sanggup buat apa sahaja untuk kita. yang sayang kita lebih dari segalanya. yang melekat macam dah tak boleh buang lagi.

kadang2 kita harap kita ada apa yang orang lain ada. tanpa sedar di depan matalah yang harus tidak disiakan. kita memang rabun sikit kadang2. kena pakai spek. baru nampak.

dan saya syukur. saya beri peluang untuk saya dan dia cuba cari ruang kesesuaian antara kami, 6 tahun lalu. saya syukur saya tidak takut untuk teruskan cinta bila ada yang tak suka. bila banyak nangis. bila banyak sedih. bila penat. tuhan tolong kuatkan semula kami. bohong kalau cakap 6 tahun bahagia 24jam.

tapi, saya tak kan lupa tiap kali dia buat saya dihargai dan dicintai dan dipujai.

dan syukurnya bila saya jumpa cinta hati yang sentiasa ada. tak tahu macam mana nak describelah. tiba rasa sebak la pulak terharu. bila ingat semua kisah dulu2.

tak tahu macam mana kami boleh samapi tahap ni. masih tak percaya!

sebenarnya post ni nak dedicate kat kawan2 yang masih mencari si idaman. yang terlalu choosy dan rasa tak ada orang yang sempurna untuk jadi kekasih. beri peluang. kita pun bukan perfect. dan doa. insya allah jumpa. :)

carilah orang yang dapat terima kebaikan dan keburukan kita. itu yang paling payah sebenarnya. kita nak suruh orang ubah untuk kita memang takkan senang. kita yang kena ajar diri untuk sesuaikan diri dengan keburukan orang. bukan terima buta2 tau tapi.

ini pun saya masih belajar. jujurnya, banyak perkara yang saya tak berkenan bila dia buat. dan saya tahu dia pun sama. dahla perempuan ni degil sikit kan. hihi. tak gaduh pun tak best. hih

jauh lagi perjalanan. tapi untuk setakat ini. alhamdulillah...

tuhan, terima kasih. :)

saya pun tak tahu kenapa nak letak gambar comot.