13/12/2009 - the baddddd stuffssss

bear with me! i'm gonna whine a lot in this post. on your markkkk get setttt GOOOO!

530am

woke up. huh, did i actually sleep or not? mandi, solat, baca yassin untuk tenangkan hati. got few sips of Milo. and waited for makeup artist to come.

7am++

makeup artist and videographer arrived. my photographer was late. so he waited for me at Masjid Putra. i dont blame him. my nikah time kept changing.

8am++

Move to Masjid Putra, Putrajaya. i just find out that SHE has forgotten my nikah bouquet. she just did sanding bouquet and had passed that to my sedara and it is red roses for god sake. and my nikah dress is lilac. She done wrong for my hantaran i can sabar lagi. but this time, i was in the car, heading to masjid for nikah and knowing i have no flower bouquet. what is bride without her flowers??

^%V%%^!!#@$*&&)((*##@#^E!!!!!

i felt like crying. god knows how long have i spent time googling hand bouquet for my BIG DAY. and this is what i get. great!

tried to be cool, and what to do, i had to use red roses (suppose to be used for reception) for nikah. urghh!

smiling for becoming a wifey, amarah dalam hati for the bouquet

and my sirih junjung, also she passed to my cousin the night before. and guess what. it's freaking ugly. i hate it.

my family semua malu sebab hantaran ariff jauh lebih cantik from mine. esp sirih junjung. damn. masa ni memang frust. luckily i have iza, olynn n mira yg calm me down. huh. dalam masjid ni sume berlaku ok.

ariff punya haruslah cantik2 coz dia guna kak shaja. the one who made our engagement dais and my sirih junjung masa tunang. and she is an adorable lady and highly recommended!

then SAH SAH! 2x lafaz. okay dah selamat. but that in details in the next post. kan ni post amarah ni. hihi

after nikah, makan2. then my family rushed back to home, nak prepare for reception pulak. didnt get the chance to photoshoot with family dekat masjid. HUHHHHHHHHH

i should have assigned someone to take care of this. so that they all tak kelam kabut balik. tapi what to do. menda da lepas.

RECEPTION

then after photoshoot around, siap2 untuk sanding pulakkk.

i entered the hall and saw my pelamin and wondered:

1. where the hell is my black n red damask background? why is it all red?
2. and where are the flower balls? they should be hanging on the panels!
3. and where are my flowers along the stage?
4. andddd why on earth the flowers on the 3tier racks look tiny and almost nothing?

KUCIWAAAA. the only thing that i like is the kerusi.

man, i tell you, dalam hati adalah bersumpah seranah segala dah. but senyum tetap senyummmmm. fine fine. amarahhhh

then, masa makan beradap, i didnt get to listen to my abah bagi speech. because toooo many friends yg dtg nak amek gmbr kt meja beradap. i dont mind for not eating. tapi adalah rasa rude bila abah cakap tapi i tgh say cheese on camera. should have assigned someone to control people coming towards meja beradap.

:( sorry abah. nanti kak long dengar kat video.

thennn, projector dewan adalah tahi. semua montage, video nikah adalah tidak clear. pecah2. mmh. penat abag wira rush2 balik buat montage nikah tu. mmm. tapi kan. the nikah vid is SUPERBBB! BESH GILAA.

and our love song, for 6 yrs, jadi wedding song. AWWW sukaaaa..... eh eh lupa ni post amarah. tak leh cerita itu.

okaylah penat dah!

kesimpulan:

1. kalau dah hesitate nak hire somebody, esp bila dah dengar bad testi, even kau dah bayar deposit ponnn xpyhla teruskan. so not worth. this is your big day! kalau cacat cela menda2 kecik takpe. for me, hantaran, pelamin, bunga are darn important in your wedding.
   
2. nikah and sanding 1 hari adalahhhhhhhhhhh rush dan kelam kabut!
3. i know an event wont be a perfect one. but was so frustrated that the bad stuffs came from ONE person. too bad. i'm not that lucky i guess.

anyway, semua dah selamat. i'm writing all this bukan nak burukkan sesiapa. just like what i mentioned to her, don't do this to other bride. please don't.