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Tuesday, May 31, 2011

rojakkk, another random post

ha tiap minggu ada wedding kan! minggu lepas pertama kali bawak datin pergi wedding. nervous okay sebab majlis tu kat rumah. panas kan.

dalam kereta nenen siap2, bila sampai memang cuaca panas gila!

tiba2 datin baik je okay. jakun tengok orang ramai, bising2. i boleh makan dengan tenteram sebab sedara2 pakat dukung dia hehe. baik pulak dia kan.



with ayahsu


keluarga kuuu

this week ada 2 weddings kat kedah. nak jalan2 penang dulu. hope eisya tak meragam. selalu amukan puaka dia adalah time nak tidur. memang mengaruk habis. huhu sekarang B terer gila dodoikan dia. cuma tak terer nak letak lepas dia lena je hehe.



ni masa kat tempat makan tadi. berjaya papa dia dodoikan n letak hihi

kalau dok dalam baby bjourn pun cepat lena. kalau berjalan tak boleh stop





next 2 weeks pulak akan fly ke kelate untuk lagi 1 wedding. dan eisya akan dihantar ke rumah pengasuh sekejap for 4 days sebab ummy nak pegi wedding cousin kat terengganu sambil holiday. huhu nevesnya nak tinggal kat rumah orang. harap makcik tu bersabar dengan datin. harap datin dapat behave. huhuhu


oh ya, eisya dah boleh tiarap! masa dia 98 days! tapi belum terer la hehe.

hari ni me n hubby cuti. kitaorang pegi jumpa kak farah sarakids. for lactation counseling. mmmh nantilah bila ada masa kita cerita pasal my breastfeed journey!

ni gambar budak punk hari ni. time dia amok headband pon ditariknya huhuhu



eisya sekarang suka amok pas mandi. dia nak mandi lama2. tapi kalau nangis sekarang, ada beberapa cara nak suruh diam. (selain nenen n dukung)

bacakan buku or flashcards(suka tgk kalerful) tengok giggle bellies(her fave is ABC, sampai her parents dah asik humming lagu2 dia), bunyikan zibbie dia (zebra berbunyi apabila ditekan), mainkan moo moo(singing moo), tepuk tangan cheer eisya! eisya!, nyanyikan twinkle (pun sibuk nak nyanyi sama, tapi papa dia dah ada rock version ok!)






sekarang ada baby tv kan. eisya tengok siap bercakap2 dengan tv. tapi baby tengok tv x elok kan? mmmh i'll try to limitlah as minimum as possible. lagipun dia bukan boleh lama. cepat boring.

kalau jumpa baby baya dia, dia tegur haha. tengokkkk je macam pelik haha.

esok june kan? yay misi gym bermula!!! semoga ederq kurus seperti jessica alba aminnn

eh terpanjang lak. ingat nak tulis pendek je. okaylah.

byeeeee!

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Friday, May 27, 2011

aku pulakk???

orang lain punya pasal, daku jugak yang kena?

tak pasal2. tak buat apa2 pun!!!

sabarrrrrr je la. suka hati mung lah!

emo tetiba kenapa tah


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Wednesday, May 25, 2011

bebel

tahun bila entah aku pernah post pasal pensuci muka. ingatkan lepas tu aku nak tukarlah. tapi adalah tidakkkk

aku adalah setia pakai bodyshop vit E tu. tiba2 ni dah nak abis, aku macam boring gila dah pakai menda ni. dah berapa tahun wey. 4 ke 5 tahun entah.

makanya minggu lepas after bermanipedi bersama gedix yaya dyah n eyin, aku pun ke sunway pyramid bersama keluarga kecilku.

dahla aku kelam kelibut nak tanggalkan warna kuku masa nak solat kat situ. anyway, that's another storylah.

cik eisya baik gila kot. bagi susu jalan2 tido. makan bergilir2 dah sekarang. kadang2 tolong suap2 kadang2 take turn.

mommy eisya blur gila tahu nak pakai pensuci muka jenama apakah.tetiba nampak Yves Rocher. tetiba SA dia bagus gila yang melayan. testing pensuci muka. wah the very sedap! terus dapat facial free kat situ. dan sambil2 papa eisya dodoikan dia mommy eisya dimekap la pulakk. sejam jugak kot kat situ.

B dah penat berapa kali dok kena dodoi baby sebab dia tidur je, budak2 Yves Rocher kacau dia haha.

aku umur tua2 begini baru terhegeh2 nak guna anti aging product. panda eyes ni dah berapa jenis eye cream pun tak hilang2. hope this works lah!

alhamdulillah so far i dont have much problem on my skin. cuma kering sikit dan ada panda etes dan sedikit pigmentasi. (panggillah freckles baru macam mat saleh sikit kannnnn)

harap juga nampak 10 tahun mudalah lepas ni muahaha. it's annoying bila orang tanya, is this your first baby? or ni anak ke berapa dah?

adakahhh akuu nampak macam emak anak lima dah??? fine tahulah aku gemuk gila sekarang tapi tapi tapiii adakah aku nampak tuaaaaaa????

silalah jangan kelihatan tuaaaa!

ummy dan b boleh pulak sound, muka rajin nak jaga. body pun kena yaaaaa.

baiklahhhhhhh. tekanan okay bila orang sound,

baby kecik je.mak besau!
wow kembangnyaaaa

pleaselah aku dah cukup tertekan baju seluar semua tak muatttt. dulu kalau muncit, tahan nafas leh la cover perut. sekarang??? harammm. nak je aku pura2 pregnant 3bulan atau 5 bulan.

mmmhhh si gedibab ni akan mula misi gym bulan depan. tengokklah nanti!!

pasti kembali ramping seperti dahulu.

masalahnya di sini, bila masa entah kau ramping????!!

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Thursday, May 19, 2011

of parenthood

Many have asked, how it's like being a mom? most of the time i beamed and said, BEST! tapi PENAT!

It has been almost 3 months now and i did mention that I'm still struggling with my time management. I am slow like that, hehe.

The first 2 months was a huge challenge to us as parents as our lil princess is not an easy baby like most babies. She cries like a lot as she a colicky baby. Putting her to sleep was the most difficult thing to do on earth. Okay that is too much, but it IS not easy. We, okay scratch that, I have to dodoi her for sometimes up to 2 hrs and she only slept for 5 minute when being put and i have to restart all over again. So to be fair to myself, i put her on my chest and both of us can sleep, so I can rest.

0-14 days, she sleeps like nobody's business during the day and wake us up every hour during the night. But after that she became restless at most of time. bergayut like ALL the time and cry ALL the time. everytime celik, things that she does most was crying. mandi je suka.

she cries for loads of reason of course. other than hunger and wet diaper and nak dukung, she also kena kacau and colic and some other unknown reason. god, it was tiring!

Few days before I went back to work, we bought pacifier because she always nak gayut sampai muntah, thought that will help her to ease herself and help her to sleep better. But it only works few times only. She hardly wants pacifier.

Few days before I started working, we also bought buai for her. My mom suggested buai as eisya will never ever sleep for more than 15min when we put her in her cot / rocker / tilam (since she was a month young. masa beralih bulan. within the first month, she tidur siang and berjaga malam).



well of course lah we are so reluctant to use buai, but tak kan nak susahkan my mom. if i'm around, i will be the buai sampai nak patah pinggang. so eisya pun berbuai. but she does not like it at first. nak2 if i yang letak memang tak jadi. nak i dodoi jugak. but if my mom, okay pulak.

but being datin eisya, telinga lintah. dengar assalamualaikum rumah sebelah pun dia bangun. so i nak bersin pon tahan2. cakap bisik2. and dia buai dihenjut non stop. so my cousin hadiahkan electric box. and we put the buai kat bilik belakang. so now yes, she sleeps longer during the day. but before masuk buai kena dodoi kat dada sampai lena. nyanyi2 joget2.

nasiblah malam2 dia okay. bangun susu and change diaper je. tapi adalah few times yang dia mengada nak tidur beriba or atas dada. sakit pinggang mommy tidur sambil duduk berjam2.

datin eisya also the baby who does not like to be put down. she likes to be held. and i know u all mesti kata siapa suruh ajar dukung? if you are with me since day one she was born, you will never ever say that. because she is that type since awal2 lagi.

like most of people will say, it is all about training. and it is us yang tak pandai and terlalu manjakan anak or my mom manjakan cucu bla bla bla.

TALK TO MY HAND!

if you said:

baringkan je baby, tepuk2 sampai dia tidur. tak payah buai. buai tak elok.

tiarapkan baby nanti dia tidur lama.

bagi je nenen, jangan bagi puting nanti jongang, nanti keliru puting, nanti tak nak lepas puting sampai besar.

biar je baby nangis, jangan dukung nanti dia dah biasa asyik nak dukung je.

for god sake, you think we never ever tried? and you think all babies are the same? even you and me are not the same! and you have no idea datin eisya menangis sampai serak suara since i konon nak train. ke nak kena train sampai dia tak ada suara? sampai lah hati kannn. sampai jiran2 pun pelik lah kenapalah my baby ni kuat sangat nangis.

so yes, it was tiring and stressful. but it is more tiring and stressful upon all those negative comments yang macam kita ni tak pandai jaga anak. mentang2 anak/cucu dorang tidur je, baik je kan. so they never feel us.

but now alhamdulillah, she is getting better. colic pon dah jarang. harap hilang terus sebab kesian sangat. nak kentut pun menangis.



her mood is at her best during early morning. subuh2 kejut mommy papa solat. belum agah dah senyum2 nampak lesung pipit dan gusi. suka ketawa bila agah. and sangat manja with mommy and papa. she knows us.

kalau dah petang or malam or weekend, tanak dgn org lain. after long weekend, pagi2 amok sebab tak dapat nenen. if i balik lambat, petang tu amok jugak sebab tak dapat nenen. (cemana nak OS??)


dah boleh main sendiri tapi kena ada orang kat dia. kalau sedar dari tidur, tak nangis dulu, tapi dia try nak meniarap. tak dapat baru nangis. hehe.

dulu kalau change diaper je ya allah, menangis macam kena cubit kuat2. now dah okay la jugak. nangis sikit2 mula2, pastu bila da bersihkan, bogelkan jap dia. seronok terus. ingat dia orang besar kot tanak pakai diaper.



she still amok lah at times. especially time nak tidur. ya allah kalau dia nak tidur then banyak gangguan ha bersabar jelah sampai dia lena. but if she is too tired, tak payah dodoi. kadang letak baru nak agah dah lelap. or dukung kejap, terus lentok.





kalau bawak berjalan pun, dia okay. suka dok dalam stroller asalkan keep on moving. sabar je. amok time nak tidur lah. kadang i kena nenen dia kat baby room sambil joget so that dia tidur. kalau lapa, kalau sempat we ran to baby room. kalau tak, i nurse in public je. either pakai nursing wear or nursing poncho.


so after 3 months being a mom to datin eisya, i can say that, i am so content. she is not an easy baby but i hope she will be a good girl when she grows up and remember us the parents n tok nenek, aunty uncle dia yang bersusah payah.

i harap lepas ni dia da boleh kurangkan kehendak didukung tu. sebab now dia dah rajin nak try meniarap (actually masa dalam pantang lagi dia asal baringkan dia turn to the side). if asyik dukung bila nak pandai kan. tak apa, mommy tak kisah lambat cepat boleh buat itu ini asalkan sihat ok.

dan paling diharap adalah supaya her painful colic dia hilang terus! huhu.

kepada orang yang macam2 kata, please understand, all babies are not the same.

and i am so lega because we are not the only one who's dealing with this. i found few friends/bloggers/members of FB moms groups (like KIM, Mommies United) yang face the same situation.

oh ya, datin tu my mom yang bagi nama sebab eisya garang and demanding kan. hehe.

okay baby eisya adelea, happy 3 months young! we love you!



Wednesday, May 18, 2011

facebook.com

aku boleh dikategorikan sebagai penfacebook tegar. nak2 ada anak ni. asik upload gambar anak. bukan apa. tu untuk tontonan saudara yang jauh dan kawan2 yang nak tengok. especially nenek eisya kat johor. hari2 kot tanya adik2 ipar2 kat rumah rumah tu, kak ida ada upload gambar eisya tak hari ni? hehe mak kena buat FB accountlah senang. hehe.

status pun aku selalu update. sukati la kan. asal aku x kacau orang. kalau tak suka kau hide je aku. sebab aku pun selalu buat macam tu kalau rasa serabut tengok cerita kau. nak2 kalau kerja kau asyik suruh join MLM, iklan itu ini. bosan kot.

yang aku hangin pasal FB ni adalah satu perkara je. aku tak kisah kau nak cerita apa pun. dah FB kau kan. yang hangin adalah tiba2 tag aku perkara yang entah apa2.

tak kisahlah barang jualan ke. lainlah kalau aku memang nak beli dan tercari2 menda tu oklah.

gambar kau pergi holiday, gambar anak beranak kau tiba nak tag aku. kalau boleh nak tag 1 album. okay apakah konsep di sini? lainlah kalau kau memang tag gambar yang aku nak tengok, memang aku klik like dan komen.

macam, apa konsep tag2 ni eh? nak suruh lihat dan komen ke? nak suruh beli ke? tak faham. kalau aku nak tengok, aku pergi je page kau. tak perlu tag please. ni page aku bukan kau punya. dok diam2 sana sudah.

lepas tu, yang rahsia namalah, zodiakla. tolonglah semakkkk!

tag kad kahwin. duh. tahu tak fb ada event punya page yang kau boleh create and siap orang boleh rsvp. duh!

sebenarnya perkara kat atas tu aku boleh toleransi lagi. aku remove je kalau rasa semak. macam patut tukar, bukan photos of ederq. tukar kepada photos of everybody who likes tagging ederq.

yang aku tak faham, ada jugak orang yang amek gambar merandung, tag semua kawan2 kat fb dia. tak kira laki ke perempuan ke. can u imagine that??!

gambar kahwin, tag semua kawan2 fb.

gambar bercuti di PD, tag semua orang.

pleaselah. tolonglah. kalau orang nak tahu apa kau buat sekarang, orang pergi page kau. tak payah susah2 klik tag button.

sengal gila tahu tak? tersengal di dunia!

apa yang korang paling tak suka kat fb?

Saturday, May 14, 2011

cough cough

so many things, so lil' time!

i'm still juggling with all these. still adjusting.wish i can multiply to 2 so that i can do everything!

i'm not feeling well.cold n cough n had fever last weekend. blame my hubby for spreading the virus! for now, eisya is still doing good. hope she wont catch this virus! and i haven't kissed her for soooo longggggg!

work has been very demanding! i'm so dead with my datelines! we have project to be finished by end of june! that bloody doors better passssss the test!!! please god!

we are going to blk kg (kg ke?) to jb tomorrow. eisya's first trip to jb!

be good baby!

n u, have a great weekend!!!

xx




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Sunday, May 8, 2011

ratu hati

ummy ratu hatiku,

tidak perlu puisi indah untuk terjemahkan betapa berterima kasihnya saya pada ummy.

dari saat saya di dalam perut, hingga dewasa, hingga kini, jasa ummy hari2 tak terbalas.

selamat hari ibu,ummy.

emak pun.

korang pun!

saya punnnnnnn!



having eisya makes me appreciate ummy more...


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Thursday, May 5, 2011

how to baby dance?

hola!

i got few friends, asking me on tips on how to make a baby. ok, that sounds weird. everyone knows how to make baby! never mind. before you keep on reading, please understand these:

  • this is my personal view only, based on my experience
  • i'm writing this for sharing purpose. does not mean i am so pandai. i just thought that this is good to be shared with.
actually there are a lot of books and sites for you to refer. but here i can list out some of the important points.

before you plan to conceive

  • know yourself. track your menstrual cycle. are they regular? if yes, good. if not, seek dr's advice.
  • practice healthy diet. consume more green. YOU AND YOUR PARTNER. pergi paksa dia makan sayur! jangan makan asam jeruk, air gas. jajan and fast food, kurangkan. ask him to quit smoking if he does, kalau boleh.
  • TAKE ACID FOLIC at least 3 months before planning to conceive. so perantin yang plan nak bunting pelamin, pergi beli cepat eh. hihi
  • make sure you have enough calcium intake.
  • check your BMI. too fat or too thin? get your ideal BMI back.
  • if rajin, get a pre pregnancy check up with gynae. do not go to GP.
  • spend time to READ
sounds paranoid? well, tuhan pun suruh usaha. so tak salah usaha. selebihnya tuhan punya kerja.

in my case, my period was every 28 days every month. so it was quite easy to track my fertile days. and i actually used my cycle for my family planning masa tu.

masa jumpa gynae, she scanned my uterus and even told me which ovum ovulates that month. hihi. so masa after conceive i secretly told the boys where to go. go left go left! haha!

pre pregnancy is important if you are worry takut ada cysts ke apa. because ada kes, tiba2 pregnant and ada fibroid then you will have to choose which to let go. or just to see if you are ready or healthy to make a baby. then the dr will help you to determine your fertile days and give some tips.

i'll never forget what my gynae told me when i had my check up. you are a healthy and young lady, and so ready to make a baby. just do your best and ask from the man above. and, make sure you can grab your hubby during these days! hehe sebab my hubby was not in town most of days. nasib je masa tu dia tak OS. hihi

during conception (malu nak tulis)

  • make sure it is your fertile day! selalu hari ke 14. so you can work on 10, 12, 16 and 18. this is because ovum stays for 1 day but sperm for 3 days (sperm DSAI je bertahan lebih lama). so in between those, boleh la sangkut mana2 insya allah. if the boys are early, they will wait for the babe. hehe vice versa lah.
  • solat hajat sebelum itu, minta dengan tuhan
  • baca doa
  • bersopan
  • enjoy yourselves. hihih jangan stress!
  • do not wash yourself immediately after finishing. relax. elevate your waist below body. easiest way, letak bantal kecil bawah punggung. or put your legs 90 deg on the wall. paham ke? (unless if you are like saiful tu, berak pun lekat berhari2)
after conception

  • jaga makan. ikut jela macam orang kata. nenas, tebu, asam2. dont take lah.
  • jangan angkat barang berat.
  • berdoa berdoa berdoa
i guess that's it! bukan lah i cakap buat macam ni terus dapat baby. ini usaha sahaja. memanglah ada orang tak payah pun acid folic ke apa ke. sihat je baby. tapi ini yang dr recommend. tuhan pun suruh usaha. maka tak salah.

kalau tak dapat lagi, usaha lagi. banyak cara lagi. if you have been trying for more than 6 months, tapi tak dapat lagi, then BOTH should seek dr's advice. sangat pantang lah if orang keep blaming the women.

this involve 2 parties. and menurut dr hamid arshad, 40% of infertility adalah disebabkan oleh perempuan, 40% lelaki dan 20% adalah both! so it is very unfair kalau asyik nak salahkan the lady je kan.

both husband and wife kena kerja keras dan support each other. jangan stress dan jangan pedulikan orang luar. kalau tengah planning, enjoy! jangan percaya cakap planning nanti lambat dapat baby. hehe

kalau lambat dapat pun tak apa. tuhan tahu apa yang the best for us. yang penting usaha doa tawakal.

just to share, my cousin, she is now 10 weeks pregnant after 5 years being married. alhamdulillah. dah macam2 usaha. ivf tak jalan. last2 dia plan nak ambik anak angkat.

tapi ni tiba2 dia preggie. ya allah bersyukur sangat2. the whole family is so happy for her. :)

so, tuhan lebih tahu the right time to give. kita usaha dan doa sahaja. allah knows best!

oh yes, you can read my story here :) flashback sikit. hehe

good luck! my prayer is with you, untuk tambah umat muhammad SAW. insya allah :)

Wednesday, May 4, 2011

my happiness





thank you allah

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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

cer bagi link korang

3 orang je kat ofis tau. hari2 macam ni pun besh gak kan. hihi

korang yang pernah drop komen or say hi kat chat box kite ni kan boleh tak drop komen kat sini so that kite boleh add link kat tepi blog ni.

sebab kadang dah baca lepas tu kan terlupa nak save link engkorang. lepas tu cari2 lagi lepas tu tak jumpa haha.

tu pon kalau sudi lah nak bagi kite baca blog korang.hehe ngada je kan.

ni video pagi tadi. eisya memang waktu bangun pagi dah fix.subuh je bangun. memang dari perut lagi suka kejut mommy subuh.

tapi time tidur tak fix. siang memang berperanglah nak suruh tidur huhu. nak2 if i ada kat umah. huhu


YouTube Video


abaikan suara mommy dia.kelakar je suara sendiri.

eh jgn lupa drop komen cakap ni link gwe! hihi tq

xx

Monday, May 2, 2011

monday morning

my whole body is aching.after 3am eisya wanted to sleep in my arms. she just wont let me put her down!

i found myself asleep with her in my arms,after being fed n i was in sitting position for more than an hour.

actually,that's pretty normal for me.

okay, nak bandi bandi.(mandi)
nak menjalan2 kejap lagi....lapar weh.

have a great mondayyy!



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