bride to bes blogsss

Months before i got married i did stalk at few bride to be blogs. i like to see how they plan their wedding, their dream and their ideas.

i was amazed on how detail can they be, how creative and determine they are. which made me feel so utterly depressed upon reading them. so most of the time i was the silent reader.

reading in awe and cant help being jealous for what they have. well to be honest, i'll end up feeling like these:

• omaigoddd i havent slimmed down yet. and these bride to bes are really serious on their diet
• omaigodddd lawanyaaaa dia punya. mine is not.
• omaigodddd i havent done thatttt
• oamigoddd she got thattttt
• stressed depressed nervoussss
  

and sooo much more lah.

stressed!

but at the end of the day, i still thanking them deep inside my heart. from their blogs, you get to know more on wedding stuffs, what to do, what to have, ideas shared and whatnot.

believe it or not, only after i got married i get to know more and more bride to be blogs. i was like wow. okay, luckily i didnt read you guys before my wedding day or else i'll faint for being sooo nervous seeing you guys so well prepared. haha

anyway, my point here is. dont be like me. ever! dont be! haha. it was just me freaked out for no reason. :p

reading these blogs will help you a lot. and i believe each of them are very generous in sharing ideas and you can even ask lotsa things on the wedding preparation stuffs among u guys. and who else can understand bridezillas conflicts well if not bride to be's?

i i would like to thank diah (the wedding guru) for coming to my wedding and linking me at her blog. so now i've got few more bride to be's readers who are interested for my wedding stuffs for rent. mucho mucho gracias!

last time i blog just to release stress (ceh! berapa banyak stress lah) but now i think that it is a good platform to gain info and get inspired from other blogs. not just on wedding of course.

oh yes, http://theknot.com/was one of my fave wedding website. and now that i'm married and http://www.thenest.com/caught my eyes! :)

okay peep, gotta go. happy wednesday y'all! today kenny rogers buy 1 free 1 quarter meal. okay tetiba je. bye!

oh yes, it's been a month. time flies! :)

bertandang

okay peep. my bertandang event. fewh dapat jugak update. dah berapa kali dah dok save draft

my family berkonvoi ke JB on 18/12/209. masa ni i dup dap dup dap takutnyaaaaa nak duduk rumah in laws. asyik cakap kat ummy takut takut. ummy macam2 pesan. ye la perempuan ni kan bukan spesies sopan. dia risau i terkentut kuat2 depan mentua. dia risau i duduk terkangkang depan tv. okay fine fineeee.

it was a simple one. all rented from Adli Bridal, JB. pagi tu, ariff came to our place to pick me up to send me to Adli Bridal, nak prepare kat sana. i was upstairs, getting ready. sekali ariff came in to the room.

i knew he was coming to our place tapi kenapa sampai naik atas bilik ni? nanti apa parents i cakap. then i said, 'B, what are you doing here? kenapa naik sampai atas ni???'. then dia macam 'hah? kenapa tak boleh ke?'

err okay okay dah kahwin lupa lupa. hihhihihihihihihih. sengallll lah. masa ni baru2 lagi. kalau tersedar dari tidur pun boleh terlompat kenapa ada orang sedang peluk i. hahahahahah.

okaylah berbalik kepada topik asal. majlis bertandang

majlis bertandang
19 dec 2009
dewan jubli perak, Bandar Baru Uda, JB

i had my makeup at Adli Bridal. both of us prepared ourselves there. for the dress, i just went there once and picked up the dress, and fitting the next time i went there. which was 1month++ before the wedding day. perghh nasib baik muat lagiiii. hihi

i had modern outfit for KL reception, so for JB reception, we had traditional outfit. being me i dont like beriya2 dress. so mine is very simple one. :)

me in the making

dan hasilnyaaa

ariff in the making

perantin with pengapits and friends

it was a simple event. my family pun tak ramai yang dapat datang sebab ada banyak kenduri yang kena attend. yang join family untuk bertandang adalah our neighbors yg dok umah UDA dulu.

kepak kepung kepak kepung

masa ni my family amik kesempatan photo shoot puas2. sebab time our side tak sempat sangat. unfortunately, i dont have the pix with me yet to upload here. huhu

pelamin & meja beradap deco

niceee

us

before my family balik, nak tinggalkan i kat situ. peluk2 cium sume. dan ya ya. menangis bagai. rasa macam kena tinggal lah. tidak tidakkk.

then my cousin's son - abbas. bila dia nak balik dia cakap kat baba dia. baba jomla amik cik da.
alah comel. dah la masa i jumpa dia later that night, dia tak nak kat i sebab ariff ada. suruh kiss pun , dia kiss sebelah pipi je. dengan ariff terus dia jeling. haha! mesti dia rasa ariff dah curi cik da dia. alolololooo

gambar bawah ni kakak abbas. i dont have pulak abbas' pix. kakak drew me a wedding card. aww comel gila. selamat perkahwinan baru cikda. haha! if i have time i'll scan and post okay.

dahla masa i makan beradap si fairuz ni boleh nak main cak2 pulak. dan masa i pose2 atas pelamin dia naik pelamin cakap, cik da kakak nak amek gambar dengan cik da. haha! daring youuuu!

the bride and fairuz wirdani

huhu after that we went to taman merdeka for photo shoot. perghhh 4 photographers terus. we were damn exhausted to pose. but all pix turn out to be nice. thank you, u all! :)

i knowwwww he's too tall! nampak sangat tengah sakit tengkuk. ni pun dah pakai heels okay

perghh ayattt. hihih

tipu tipu kenapa dua2 pandang tempat lain2. hihih

:)

muka terkejut tiba2 kena kiss. hihih

bercicak2

rockkkk tuhhh

thank youuuuu

note: gambar lawa2 sume dari photographers. yang biasa2 tu curik2 dlm fb. hihi

the reception

okay, i think i have to write this now as i dont want to blog about this next year! hih

the reception
dewan seri seroja, putrajaya
13/12/2009

after nikah, kitaorg heret abang nazim to photoshoot nearby area. pastu kelam kabut balik mekap2 tukar baju untuk reception.

kepak kepung kepak kepung. masa ni macam. wah selama ni dengar kompang orang lain kawen kan. so this time i was like. is this kompang for me? aku sedang kawen ke? ishhh sengal kuasa infiniti.

wah sengihhh

masa berarak, i jalan sgt slow slow control dan few friends said i senyum senget2 maybe sebab nervous sangat. haha! sengal. dan orang kata wah macam mana ederq leh jalan sopan2 ni. hihi my mom dah cakap banyak kali jangan jalan laju. coz i always that type one. nak cepattttt je. hihihi.

pergh masa ni ramai orang lah. terkejut i. rasa macam artis! hihi

and ariff kannnnn... ada ke jalan tunduk2? i told him, b tengok depan lah. and smileeeee. ishhh pemalu betol tau. hihi

my flower girls comel. dan sangat teratur. maybe sebab dorang dah besar. tak payah nak ajar banyak kali. hihi me likee!

then, selawat kat entrance, i have chose hijjaz punya selawat tapi tiba2 saudara mara buat selawat live. oh okay tak apa lah. okay jugak. sebab sume menda dah live. baru lah feel live live.

the entrance

then berarak ke pelamin dengan gamelan. wah this i likeeeee! i likeeee so much!

heart the gamelan sound

this chair is not so comfy for ariff. he kept bending his back. hih

then doa by ayahsu. pergh. masa ni sentap. ayat2 dlm doa tu mmg sentap mmg besh. hampir titis air mata. thank you ayahsu.

aminn

then, renjis2. my brothers naughty. abes di campak2 bunga rampai. haha! i knew it!

direnjis2 ummy n abah

did i tell you of the henna story? done by ayin n dayu from dayu design. (free! sponsored by ayin. hihi) and i worn it too long that it turns very black! lucky i had time to sental! fewh.

then, makan beradap. haha! tak sempat makan. masa ni lapa gila sebenarnya. haha

makan dgn adap

merry happy clappy!

then the montage shown were - childhood montage, engagement and nikah montage. yeah the projector was not in good condition but people were still watching and laughed on our nikah montage. sebab kelakar masa nak tunggu sah ke tak. me and ariff punya mata macam kiri kanan kiri kanan. haha! ish tengok sendirilah tak reti nak describe. hihi

amanat

then, abah berucap. then tiba2 potong kek. ok i tak sempat makan dah kena potong kek ke? haha!

tiba2 kannn tengok2 pisau ptg kek tidak ada. gimikkk la kononnnn. konon2 kena jawab soalan dulu baru dapat potong kek. okay fine siapa punya idea ni. mesti abg bainuri lah. cehhh.

arep dah terketar2 menjawab. esp bila part ucapan. and i forgot to prepare myself. main cakap je. isshhhhhhhh

ariff nervous

then after that macam biasalah, beramas mesra dan berambil gambar.

i'm so happy that many friends came to celebrate us. yang i appreciate adalah kawan2 stf yang sudi jugak datang even da lama tak jumpa. huhu tq ladies. tq facebook! hahah!

stfians

tidak dilupakan my lovely glowing gedixbabes! muah muahhh

dan jugak kak mas yang dah berzaman lah tak jumpa. zaman2 sekolah agama kat rumah kedai. haha! terharuuu

with kak mas

ada jugak yang tak dapat dtg tp takpela nak buat macam mana kan. kan banyak kenduri time tu. cuti sekolah standard ah. huhu. sorry tak dapat nak upload semua gambar the rest in this post.

and what i admire the most is my family support! everyone plays their part. the event will not be a success without their effort. thank you sangat2 stay sampai pagi the night before for rehearsal. and berpenat lelah untuk event kak long ok.

walaupun muka kak long macam nak tahan kentot, kak long tetap upload sebab u all semua comel in this pix!

yang kelakar urusetia logistik - pembetul red carpet. haha! nampak macam senang tapiiii itulah paling penat sebab asikkk tersenget2. hhiihi sian korang.

as for my parents, this is their first time having kenduri. kesian sangat2 ummy. penat gila dia. masa event tu mata separuh terbukak.penat sangat2.

then after that, abg nazim n abg wira n yusuf (all from dinawedding group) diheret untuk photoshoot outdoor.

oh man, finally it is done! lega sangat2. happy sangat2. i didnt sleep enough for the past few days. and i thought i will not have the energy for the day. but man, i was wrong. tuhan pinjamkan tenaga dari mana tak tahu lah. i didnt feel tired at all. i cant stop smiling (despite of gigi jarang yang sentiasa diejek cousins. ceh!)

tapi bila balik rumah after outdoor photoshoot, dah mandi2 semua dan nak makan.

perrgh lapar gila badan terketar2. dan perut masuk angin. tapi pegi makan nasik jugak. then zasss i cant walk staright. gastrik sudah datang. perut sudah masuk hangin.

and the best part is ada hubby tolong sapukan ubat. awww bestnyaaaaa. terus kentut2 keluar angin dan legaaaa. hihihi.

so few things as penutup:

1. thank you to all for coming to our wedding!
   
2. thank you for the gifts! remember my previous post on wish list? i got 90% of what i listed! wow! rezeki. thank you all! muah muahhh. dan ada jugakk dapat baju baby ok. aiman bagi. ish ishhh sabar yaa. haha. and kelakar si debab tu bagi black lingerie. ceh iya2 cakap jgn bukak depan orang la apalah. sekali kann. the box terjatuh kat meja hadiah. dan semua orang kat situ dah nampak. hahah! eh tapi me n ariff sukaaa hadiah itu. hihih. as for cadar and comforter set, i dont have to but for 2 years kot. haha! microwave pun dapat 2, visions etc etc wah kena rajin masakkk.
   
3. minta maaf terkurang terlebih on the event :)
4. thank you to family and friends yang tolong my event. my puan pengapit, iza - for your time and mira n olynn for jaga at guess book table!

13/12/2009 - the best day in my life. alhamdulillah :)

puan ieda dan suami

love

the solemnization

hih reading back below entry made me feel keji. i was very mad (still) and emotional. haha! let it be. memang geram punn.

andddd now it's time for a lovey dovey post y'all. and sorry yah, this blog will be full with wedding stuffs for next few entries. dont yawn just yet okayyy. hihi

the solemnization
location: masjid putra, putrajaya
date: 13 december 2009

me done and ready for nikah. seeeee the eyes! the obvious eye bags!

ariff was freaking nervous whenever we talked about the wedding previously. like other groom he worries most on the akad. takut kena tanya macam2. nak2 pulak kita orang dapat imam besar Masjid Putra yang memang famous dengan suka berlama2 masa nak nikah. hihi

as for me, i was nervous too! who's not? GULPPP

ariff was a bit late for nikah. so i used the time, pegi kat parents minta maaf and restu. i went to abah first and hugged him and asked for forgiveness dan asked him to doakan us.

mannnn! abah was touched and i knew he wanted to cry also! i'm the only daughter and he has been so protective over me throughout the years. tapi i sayang makeup, i hold the tears. tried hard okay.

then i went to ummy and did the same too. and i cant hold it anymore. the tears dropped and my ummy cakap. ishh kenapa menangis ni dah2 rosak makeup. and i tried to laugh sambil hold the tears. damnnn

iza tolong wipekan tears. nasib baik tak leleh2. hihi. mmhh the parents. the greatest treasure in my world. they have done so much that no words can tell. haruslah sedih when it comes to this part. damn, my throat is still choking while typing this! huhhh

okay here we go. it's time! luckily imam tak banyak soal. dia tanya rukun nikah je. and borak2 lain. dan dia memang banyak kisah nak diceritakan. kelakar. haha

ya tok imam sila cepat jangan berlengah lagi

abah yang nikahkan. i can sense abah was nervous too. initially he wanted to pass the job to imam tapi imam insist abah sendiri nikahkan. kan lagi afdal.

dup dup duppp

the moment came and my heart went hysteric inside. god knows how ariff's was! dua kali lafaz as ariff lambat response. and bila sah sah tu i was like OMG OMG. is this for real? and i felt like jumping. rasa nak pegi lompat kat ariff and hugged him there and then. and people say my muka galak showed in the video. haha! sengal lah.

alhamdulillah

i didnt cry - menangis gembira ke apa. my weakness that day was the parents. after nikah pon salam2 parents still rasa macam. entahlah i dont know how to describe but i know my parents sort of letting me go for ariff and felt losing me but i hate that assumption okay. i'm still their daughter. ariff is not taking me. ariff is sharing me. hihi.

oh yes, i remember this. i also felt sebak when after nikah, ariff came to me and serahkan duit mas kahwin. and i was sebak and could not say any other words but TERIMA KASIH. ingatkan nak drama sikit nak cakap, terima kasih suamiku tercinta. adinda harap kekanda akan cintai ku sepenuh ha... okay okay shadap you jgn nak reka cerita pulakk!

thank you

okay lah, itu aje kot. gambar campur2 dr camera orang2. yg last sekali je official photographer pix. me likeeeee!

and the montage as well. click here!
tak sempat nak download lah. u all tengok situ ok. done by abg wira from dinawedding

notes:

1. i heart my nikah makeup the most!
2. if you read my blog previously, i mentioned that i hate the material and the color for my nikah dress. but i was wrong. i heart it soooo much. even it is not white, it still look pure, fresh and niceee. well at least for me lah. hihi
3. the song in the video is our love song. and i'm sooo loving it in our nikah video!

to ariff:

alhamdullilah we are husband and wife now. i cant express my feeling how happy and thankful i am for having you. hunny doa b n hny love each other sampai bila2. and we are blessed with goodness. i love you so much. MUAACCHSSS

lovebirds

i love you forever

the day before

12/12/2009

masa ni freak out rumah berkecah lagi. doorgift tak siap pack lagi. bilik perantin baru 85% siap. pergh masa ni memang penat gila.

dah setel2 sume perkara, petang tu pegi ambil brg2 hantaran. haram. kecewa.

i requested bekas lain, lain dia bagi. fine! pagi esok dah nak nikah. malas nak layan. boleh lagi bermuka2 baik. pulak tu lupa nak ambil sirih junjung. dan bekas cake tak bunga langsung?

malam tu kelam kabut pegi dewan. untuk rehearsal. my event manager (eceh padahal sedara je) ada wedding kat merak kayangan so sampai lambat.

that time mmg i yg kelam kabut buat semua menda. seb bek ada sdara2 len tlg. pergh time ni mmg penatttt.. dah nak demam.

pastu i left the dewan at almost 11. still org pelamin tak sampai2 lagi. and guess what. dia sampai kul 12.30 and finish her thing at 2++. tak kuasalah aku nak tunggu. dan aku pon neves nak tengok hasil sebab takut dia tak bagi yg dia promise. hantaran pon dah salah kan. so haruslah neves bab pelamin.

malam tak leh tido. i think i slept less than 2hrs. huhhhh

thenbaru teringat flower bouquet dia belom bagi. 2am ++ i called her and she said dah bagi my sedara. ok fine. tidurrr tidurrrr. tapi xboleh tidur.

up next - wedding day!

the wedding team

okay i'll type this fast as ummy is bising2 already in the kitchen. hih.

alhamdulillah all went well. i suppose the event went as planned except for few things yg mmg haram rasa nak marah segala. huhuh. xpe2. lek2. ok i'm revealing my wedding team. mana la tau pasni u all nak hire ke. hihi

13/12/2009

official photographer
NAZIM ZAFRI - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

official videographer
Abg Wira from dinawedding- HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

makeup artist
kak emma, emma pesona - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

nikah dress:
cik lah (jamilah design) - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

wedding dress: the most FAQ from u bunnies. hih
siti aishah - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

wedding cake and hantaran cakes
kak ellie from de'heart - HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!

henna
ayin n dayu from dayu design

pelamin
nurul arbee creation
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hantaran
nurul arbee creation
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tu je kot for now. anyway, for all bride to bes! plan well for your big day. and pilih org yg kita betol2 trust. kalau awal2 dah hesitate, jangan. :)

and i have few things for rent. i'll let u know soon ok. some of them are:

veils: yang i guna time engagement, nikah and sanding
my wedding dress
flower girls basket
crown
nt update lg. :)


ANDDD this event will not be a success without my lovely family's support. semua orang adalah bersatu padu! dan have fun walau penattttt. sayang u all. muahhh.

the childhood montage

me likeeee this!!!

done by ikram zam zam. thank you dude!

but projector kat dewan adalah tahi!